Organising a wedding is an exciting experience, but it can also be incredibly stressful. You’ll need excellent organisational skills and a meticulous eye for detail to bring your vision to life. The most important first steps to consider are when and where your wedding should occur.
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Home or away?
With so many amazing wedding venues out there, it can be hard to know where to begin. One of the first things to consider is whether you intend to get married in your own country or to celebrate abroad. This decision is personal and has many different pros and cons. Getting married at a local venue may make it more accessible for friends and family to attend. Consider family members who could find travel difficult and weigh up all options before getting carried away. Those with young children, health issues, or intensive jobs may find traveling abroad difficult to manage. However, if your dream destination involves travel, there are always ways to work around this.
Wedding venue style and architecture
Aim to have a clear idea of your wedding style or theme ahead of time. Utilise free websites such as Pinterest and Canva to create a mood board and develop your dream aesthetic for the big day. When you view a venue, bring these designs and assess whether the style and architecture match the vision in your head. If your wedding decor is traditional, the aesthetic of your venue should align with this and complement it. For example, wildflower bouquets and delicate lace details look beautiful in an older-style property for a whimsical wedding, whereas modern glass-fronted buildings work well with statement decor.
Decide on your non-negotiables
Consider writing a list of non-negotiables with your partner, taking note of anything you want and don’t want. If you intend to have your wedding ceremony outside, your priority might be the grounds. Having space for elegant and comfortable seating outside could be a dealbreaker. A good tip is to ask the venue manager to show you photographs of the property during the season you intend to marry. You may find that it looks beautiful during summer but the decor isn’t quite as suitable for a winter wedding. Consult your florist for opinions on the perfect bouquets to suit the venue.
Hiring a wedding planner
Not everyone wants to arrange every last detail of their wedding day alone. For some, having a qualified wedding planner on hand may be helpful. Every bride is different and there is no set rule to say that you must hire someone to assist you. However, a wedding planner is trained to pick up on details that you may not have considered. They can also ask any burning questions about the venue and the touchy topic of pricing that you don’t feel comfortable discussing.
However you see your dream wedding venue looking, don’t forget to enjoy the excitement of every step during this incredible life journey. The happiness of both you and your partner is what truly matters, so don’t lose track of the little things that are important to you both.
